For the past decade, I wanted nothing more than to hear this man say he loved me, that he saw a future with me, that he wanted to be with me. So, for ten years, I sat around and pined for him while he slept with my best friend, took my cousin’s virginity (we were [...]

Scenario 1

Some time ago last year, my good friend told me she “disapproved” of my relationship, and thought I was wasting my time. I didn’t pay her any attention, and a few weeks later, I called a few times but she never returned my calls.  That’s how we do sometimes, so I wrote it off and called her a couple weeks [...]

One of the biggest complaints about women that I have heard from the men in Detroit is that they are gold-diggers. According to most men that I’ve encountered, the only thing women care about is what kind of car they drive, what they do for a living, and how much money they have in the [...]