I’ve never been a risk taker in all of my 26 years on this planet. But a month ago, I decided to do something extremely anti-Sphinx: I decided to end my lease, resign from my job, and move across the country (well not really the whole COUNTRY, but it sounds more dramatic so I’ll stick with [...]

We know we’ve been away for a while and we would like to thank everyone who emailed us and came through the site to check up on us. Though it may seem impossible, all of the PMS girls- Lioness, Sphinx, Abyss, Siren, Evolver and the Inquirer- have moved over the holidays and Prototype will be [...]

For the past decade, I wanted nothing more than to hear this man say he loved me, that he saw a future with me, that he wanted to be with me. So, for ten years, I sat around and pined for him while he slept with my best friend, took my cousin’s virginity (we were [...]

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Some time ago last year, my good friend told me she “disapproved” of my relationship, and thought I was wasting my time. I didn’t pay her any attention, and a few weeks later, I called a few times but she never returned my calls.  That’s how we do sometimes, so I wrote it off and called her a couple weeks [...]

One of the biggest complaints about women that I have heard from the men in Detroit is that they are gold-diggers. According to most men that I’ve encountered, the only thing women care about is what kind of car they drive, what they do for a living, and how much money they have in the [...]

I noticed that the older I get, the more I find myself praying and talking to God. In high school, you couldn’t pay me to pray or acknowledge Him as a driving force in my life. As kids we always feel entitled to the world, and I was definitely one of those kids. But now I [...]

So, I was emailing a friend the other day (when I should have been working- haha) and we started discussing the concept of “soul mates.” From there, we went on to talk about which was more important in a relationship: passion or security. Below are snippets of the emails:

After a certain point, people should not [...]

So for those of you who have been following my dating experience, I am still dating the white guy. It’s been several weeks now and, to be honest, I am no longer sure if I am feeling it anymore. There’s just this invisible barrier between us that I can’t seem to cross. I can’t really [...]

So I clicked on my homepage, which happens to be Yahoo, and saw THIS SHIT, with “Sammy Sosa”’s name by it…

Is this for real? What the hell is wrong with being black? I mean, I know Sammy wasn’t “black”, but d@mn….

Is it really THAT BAD? What could have possibly happened to make [...]

For all of you who haven’t heard, Lamar Odom of the L.A. Lakers and Khloe Kardashian have apparently come to terms and are ready to file for a marriage license. What was the hold up you may ask? Coming to an agreement on the conditions of their pre-nup. According to NY Daily News, the terms [...]